Socrates famous quote while on trial for heresy "An unexamined life is not worth living", is probably not the first thing that pops into your heads when considering wistful feelings of happily ever after with Prince Charming, but come on, have you bumped into Prince Charming at the grocery store or dry cleaner recently?
Ok, I have your attention. Let’s carefully consider Socrates quote for a minute. An unexamined life, when it comes to this rant of mine, we’re going to plagiarize his words and insert ‘Love’ before life, so here is the hacked version of the quote: ‘An unexamined Love life is not worth living’. Now perhaps you believe that you've analyzed your love life to death, over email, cocktail and pints of ice cream - FAIL! My guess is that if you’ve been drawn this far in to my missive, you haven’t solved anything with your version of evaluation.
Really investigating ones love live, achievements and failure combined would be the one area we are however living in the dark pre technology days when we were hesitant to seek advice, seek out help or second opinions; back in a time where, if perhaps you were over 30 and owned a cat, you were crazy cat lady. I for starters am glad we are past this, but why are we so unwilling to take charge of our romantic life, we take control of everything else. Not pleased with our occupation, we look for a replacement. Not satisfied with our career choice, we go back to school. Don’t like where we stay, we move. We mix things up easily and promptly in other regions of our lives. Why not our romantic life?
Time for you to evaluate, and I mean really examine. Bars and clubs are not working. The gym is ideal for getting us ready to meet Mr. Right, however, not for actually finding him. If fix ups and blind dates worked you would have never gotten past sentence two. Internet and online dating has various truly serious disadvantages, Photoshop advancements being a huge drawback. I say it’s time for a little less self-examination and a foray into a specialist. And, No I don’t mean your therapist.
If you were looking for a job in your field and weren’t discovering it, you would probably consult a headhunter. Planning a dream vacation to Europe that you been saving for - forever -? No doubt you'd probably utilize the knowledge of a travel agent. I say it’s time to let an expert help us. Who better than a competent matchmaker to look us in the eye and tell us not what we want to hear, but what we need to hear? Help us get down to what we are really interested in. Find a way to put into words all the qualities we have to provide and help sort out the traits that we truly desire in a companion. I for one am willing to stop playing games with the most significant part of my future still unsure. My mission is to follow Socrates advice, and investigate, with the help of an expert, of course my love life!
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